My special needs child is turning 18, now what?

Ask the Experts | Kimberly King

Turning 18 is a major milestone for any teenager, but for parents of a child with special needs, it brings unique challenges and considerations. In Michigan, as in many states, this age marks the transition to legal adulthood, meaning your child’s rights fully transfer to them. Although this transition can be overwhelming, understanding the necessary steps can help ensure your child’s continued well-being and success.

Transition planning involves a coordinated process with the child, family, school district, and other support team members. Together, they prepare your child for adulthood, addressing education, employment, and independent living. During high school, the Individualized Education Plan Team (IEPT) will create a transition plan focusing on life skills, vocational training, and post-secondary education opportunities. This plan should be customized to your child’s strengths, needs, and interests, providing a roadmap for their future.

At 18, your child gains the legal capacity to make their own decisions. If they are not capable of managing their affairs independently, you might need to explore options like establishing a power of attorney or legal guardianship. An attorney specializing in special needs or disability law can guide you through these options while respecting your child’s rights. Alternatively, a supported decision-making agreement can be drafted, allowing individuals with disabilities to retain decision-making capacity with the help of chosen supporters.

Financial planning is crucial as your child reaches adulthood. Social Security Income (SSI) can provide monthly support if your child cannot sustain gainful employment, helping with essentials like food, clothing, and shelter. SSI recipients can also work and make money; more information is available at choosework.ssa.gov. Ensuring your child has appropriate health insurance coverage is also important. In Michigan, SSI recipients automatically qualify for Medicaid, but they may also have private insurance. Consider setting up a special needs trust or a MiAble account to manage your child’s finances and preserve eligibility for public assistance programs. Consulting with a financial advisor experienced in special needs planning can help navigate these areas.

Finally, support your child’s development of life skills. Encourage independence through managing finances, cooking, and using public transportation. Resources and programs from organizations like Michigan Rehabilitation Services offer valuable support and training for young adults with disabilities.

While this transition period can be challenging, careful planning and support can help your child successfully shift into adulthood. Addressing legal, educational, financial, and personal development needs will set the stage for a more independent and fulfilling life.


The Transition Services Department’s mission is to help families stay informed of ways to build independence and transition to life post public school. For more information follow us on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/GPPSS-Special-Education-Transition-Services-101782845747665 or contact Transition Services Coordinator Kimberly King M.A., CCC-SLP at kingk@gpschools.org.